SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY

The Pastoral Staff of Saint Patrick's Basilica extends congratulations and a cordial welcome to you who are planning to consecrate your love for one another in the Sacrament of Matrimony. It is our privilege and our duty to help you in this preparation so that your marriage may begin on a most positive note. The guidelines that follow are designed to help you prepare well for this most important event in your lives.

1. Contact the Parish Office at tel. # (613) 233-1126 one year or at least six months in advance.

If either person was previously married, more time may be needed; in this case we advise that you consult first our Ottawa Archdiocesan Tribunal Office or the Chancery Office at tel. # (613) 738-5025. Then, you can  consult the Rector of the Basilica before setting any dates.

2. Requirements:

A) Freedom to marry (such as, not previously married)
B) Baptismal certificate - for the Roman Catholic Party ( Call the office of the Catholic Church where you were baptized and ask a copy of your Baptismal certificate for the purpose of marriage. This certificate must only be issued within  6 months of the date of your marriage. For the non-Catholic Party (if you were baptized in a non-Catholic church and your Baptismal certificate is accessible from the office of that church, we need a copy of it; if not, a letter of testimony from your parent / parents is required testifying that you were baptized / or not baptized and you were previously married / or not previously married. This letter must be signed by the parent / parents of the non-Catholic Party.
C) Confirmation certificate (this is normally indicated on your Baptismal certificate). Please note that one can still be married without being confirmed, but it is highly recommended that you receive the sacrament before you are getting married. If you decide to be confirmed at a later date after marriage, kindly keep in touch with our parish office because there is a preparation involved prior to receiving the Sacrament of Confirmation.
D) * Marriage Licence (this can be obtained at the City Hall, Sussex Street only within 3 months of the date of your marriage). Please consult the priest before obtaining this document. Dispensation is required for mixed marriages (i.e. a Catholic marrying a non-Catholic) obtained by the rector or his delegate; *Marriage Banns (this is a document issued by the Catholic Church, similar to that of Marriage Licence obtained from the City Hall.) The priest will advise you if you need this document or the Marriage Licence from the City Hall.

 

3. Pre-nuptial interview  with the rector or his delegate. This will usually take at least one hour. Kindly make an appointment either from the rector or his delegate for this interview. You need to bring identification cards during this interview.

4. Marriage Preparation Course --- this is a weekend program of discussion with your fiancé / fiancee, and interaction with other couples who are also preparing for marriage. Guest Speakers are invited to share different topics that affect married life. The program starts on a Friday evening until Saturday afternoon, offered usually in September and April.

REGISTRATION:  Please call the parish office at (613) 233-1126 or download the form (see forms below) or pick it up at our office.  Pre-registration and payment of fees upon registration.

Rev. Lindsay Harrison - Director of Marriage Preparation Course 
281 Nepean Street, Ottawa, Ontario K1R 5G2

1. The Ceremony. The privilege of a Mass is granted not only to two Catholics marrying, but also to mixed couples (Catholic and non-Catholic). Experience shows that many non-Catholics find much meaning when there is a Mass especially if the significance is briefly explained. An appropriate marriage ceremony also is available if one chooses without communion service. When a Catholic and a Non-Catholic marry, an alternative ceremony is recommended without a communion service.

2. Lectors and Altar Servers. Relatives or friends are welcome as
lectors (readers of the Scriptures). Please ensure that they will
enhance the ceremony by their ability to proclaim the lessons clearly,
meaningfully and effectively.

3. Music. Only Church liturgical music is performed in the Basilica. This
is music to the honour and glory of God. We do not allow any music such as,
"Love Story" or themes from movie hits. This should be kept in mind when
planning your wedding at Saint Patrick's. The Church organist can be of
assistance to you in the planning of your music program. If you have your own
soloist the music is to be supplied one month prior to the wedding date. The
organist receives a separate stipend for his / her services and payment is due the
week of the wedding before rehearsal night. The organist can supply a wedding
tape of suitable music but does not attend the rehearsal prior to your wedding.

4. Offering to Church.Thoughtful people consider the special gift to the
Church on the occasion of a marriage. Not only do understanding couples want
a clean, well maintained building, they also realize that maintenance costs
money as do utilities. There is a fee for the ceremony, which helps meet the cost of operating the Basilica. When you tentatively booked the church for your wedding, there is an "Agreement Form" to be signed by you and the priest will discuss the donation fee with you as well as our church policy about tentatively booking for church wedding.

Thank you for your cooperation.

5. Rehearsal - The rehearsal should be a happy experience once everyone involved knows what to do. It is important that the Wedding Party be present and on time for both rehearsal and wedding. The time for rehearsal must be from 45 minutes to one hour maximum inside our Basilica. Please cooperate on this matter.

Present for the rehearsal should be the entire wedding party, if possible. If there is to be a flower girl or ring bearer, they too should be present (children should be at least 5 years old).

NOTE: Parking facilities are often crowded. Guests could be informed that
parking is available at the School yard of Saint Patrick's Adult School, just across our 281 Nepean Street office.

For security reasons, please enter and exit the Church by Nepean Street ramp entrance. Front doors will be locked during rehearsals.

6. Flowers - Arrangements are left to the couple's choice. It is customary
that the flowers be left in the Church after the wedding. If they are needed for
the reception they should not be placed in the Church and then taken away.
Please arrange with ushers or bridesmaids for removal of any runner, pew
markers, flower boxes, etc. immediately after the ceremony.

7. Photographs - Photographers should not come through the
communion rail gates until, after the service. Then, at the signing of the
register. Photographers are asked to be respectful of the ceremonies and to be
as discreet as possible. They should consult the priest before the ceremony.

8. Confetti. We respectfully ask that no confetti , rice, or bird seed be
thrown inside or outside the Church. There is danger of people slipping and
falling. Cleaning up confetti after each wedding becomes burdensome. 

9. Guidelines for Receiving Communion at Mass:

FOR CATHOLICS

Catholics fully participate in the celebration of the Eucharist when they
receive Holy Communion in fulfilment of Christ's command to eat His
Body and drink His Blood. In order to be properly disposed to receive
Communion, communicants should have fasted for an hour, and seek
to live in charity and love with their neighbours. Catholics should be
reconciled with God and the Church through the Sacrament of
Reconciliation or Confession. A frequent reception of the sacrament of Reconciliation 
is encouraged.

FOR NON-CATHOLICS

We welcome to this celebration of the Eucharist those Christians who
are not fully united with us. It is a consequence of the sad divisions in
Christianity that we cannot extend to them a general invitation to
receive Communion. Catholics believe that the Eucharist is an action
of the celebrating community signifying a oneness in faith, life and
worship in the community. Reception of the Eucharist by Christians not
fully united with us would imply a oneness which does not yet exist, and
for which we must all pray.

FOR THOSE NOT RECEIVING COMMUNION

Those not receiving sacramental Communion are encouraged to
express in their hearts a prayerful desire for unity with the Lord Jesus
and with one another. Guests not receiving Communion may be seated, or they may fall in line and ask for the priest's blessing instead of receiving sacramental Communion..

FOR NON-CHRISTIANS

We also welcome to this celebration those who do not share our faith
in Jesus. While we cannot extend to them an invitation to receive
Communion, we do invite them to be united with us in prayer.

..................................................... may your wedding ceremony be beautiful as you begin a blessed life
together. May you see your children's children to the third and fourth generation.

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